Wednesday, September 5, 2012

The Straight Cuckold's Guide to Eating Cum

Hot 'n creamy semen straight from your wife


Eat another man's cum?! You've got to be kidding!!  

Not at all. Cum cleanup is a long-recognized fetish for many cuckolds. Not all cucks are into it, but it's a popular and common part of the lifestyle for many. Cucks who have tried it know the smell and taste of another man's semen dripping out of our wife is a highly powerful aphrodisiac! 

Thinking about licking your lady clean after she's had sex with someone else does not make you gay! It doesn't even make you bi. It's simply another part of being cuck. If you have no interest in cum eating, that's fine. There are plenty of other cuckold activities to keep you busy. Read on if you've been wondering about having your first taste of bull seed spilling out of your wife's recently screwed cunt.

Does semen taste good?

It can. But most heterosexual men aren't psychologically inclined to like it at first. However many grow to really like it. They believe cum  tastes much better after it's been inside their wife. It's all psychological. The turn-on is that another man just poured his semen in your wife. 

The taste of the sperm is secondary to the knowledge of what she has been engaged in sexual intercourse with another man. To really enjoy cum eating you should get used to its flavor, which generally runs to the "starchy" or salty side of things. There are ways to improve its taste:

·        Semen is better when it comes from a non-smoker and light drinker.
·        The primary ingredient from the prostate is fructose, or fruit sugar.  Taste can be dramatically improved by her bull eating fruit, especially pineapple.
·        Diets high in fatty foods can degrade the taste.
·        If your girl needs extra vaginal lubrication, opt for one that's flavored and water-       based. Stay away from silicone-based lubricants.
·        Spermicidal cream can affect the flavor of cum. Try different brands.
·        Younger men - especially those 18 to 22 - have the best tasting semen.

Start by eating your own cum

The best way to get used to eating another man's cum is to sample your own. But there's a problem with this: human males are designed so that our sexual urges drop fast after we've ejaculated. You may find that you lose any interest in eating cum the moment you finish spurting. This is perfectly normal, and has to do with the release of hormones when we orgasm. During this "refractory period" you won't be much interested in tasting your sperm, or anyone else's. In fact, it'll be hard for you to have another erection.

The trick is to lick up your sperm immediately after you've cum, or even while you’re still ejaculating. Masturbate while you fantasize about tasting cum and at the moment you ejaculate and while you're still cumming and shooting, lick up what's emptied so far. Try this several times repeatedly to get the hang of it.  It also helps to try and maintain your sexual arousal as long as possible after ejaculating. Keep watching the porn or whatever you focused on while masturbating after you've licked your sperm. Why? It gets you used to maintaining libido after ejaculation. That's important. Keep fondling your soft cock to learn how to keep up the sexual interest. With practice you'll be able to enjoy licking your own cum even several minutes after you've ejaculated.

Licking your own cum from your wife's pussy

When you get to the point that you can lick your own cum after masturbating you are ready to try cleaning up your wife’s pussy after you fuck her. You may want to tell her ahead of time what you will do, or you can surprise her if you wish. If you tell her ahead of time though you will have more motivation to go through with it.

I like to work up a good cuckold fantasy while fucking as it helps me do it afterward, even if I feel the desire waning after I cum. When you’re ready to try this remember one thing. If you shoot your cum deep inside her pussy then most of it will stay too deep to reach, unless you shoot a really large load. So when you're ready to cum, pull your cock partly out so that only the first inch or two is inside her pussy. If you need to you can use your hand to finish yourself off but what you want to do is pull back just far enough so that your cum gets drained right inside her opening.

Try to shoot as much and as hard as you can. As soon as you finish do not wait. Slide down immediately and go down on her. If your cum is not already flowing out while she's on her back, flip her over on all-fours and position yourself under her, or have her straddle your face.

Your wife's bull is done: Now it's your turn

Now that you've gotten used to the taste of cum and cleaning up your wife’s pussy after sex, you're ready for the Big League: cleaning up after ANOTHER man has had sex with your lady. 

You'll find that you'll be more willing to lick her dry if you haven't yet cum yourself. If you're tempted to masturbate while your wife is busy fucking, then try not to reach an orgasm. You may also want to try and withhold having any sex or orgasms for as long as you can stand it before someone else fucks her. You will find that this significantly increases your libido and you will be more eager to clean her up after she fucks someone else. It also helps give you powerful orgasms when you finally cum. And I mean super powerful spurts that make your teeth swim!

When it’s time for the big event, make sure the Bull knows what you want to do. If you watch them fuck, so much the better, as that will excite you more and you will be ready to go as soon as he’s finished. If you are not in the room then they need to call you in the moment he has finished cumming inside her. He needs to move aside immediately, and your wife should spread her legs and plant her feet wide apart to give you good access, as well as a good view. 

Ideally, if the room is lit, you should see his sperm at her entrance as soon as you get close. If it’s dark you may have to use your tongue to find out if there is sperm at her opening. If there is none, remember that a woman's vagina is tilted backward, toward her tailbone. If she’s on her back, most of his cum will flow backward, toward her cervix and away from her pussy opening.  She may need to sit up or lean back on a pillow to get it flowing toward the opening. You can also have her flip over on her tummy, or have her straddle your face. If the cum is trapped deep, you may need to use a finger to coax it to start flowing. Once it does, using your tongue to probe deep should keep it going. Getting all the cum will take several minutes, and then you will notice that the sharp taste will begin to subside when she is clean.

Hopefully if you follow this you'll soon be enjoying every drop other men spill inside your wife, and you'll be glad to be the one cleaning her up after her extramarital affairs!

Fun cum facts...

·        The longer the cum stays inside your wife, the more it'll be absorbed into her body. To get the most out, clean her quickly as you can after her Bull has fucked her.

·        The more time that passes the thinner cum gets. This makes it run out faster, so even if you can’t get to it immediately, with the passing of five or ten minutes it will begin to drip out.

·        Younger men tend to shoot more than older guys. Encourage your wife - cougar MILF or not! - to indulge her hot wife lifestyle with a college-age kid.

Friday, May 11, 2012

How to get a straight cuck husband to suck your cock

You found that cuck couple. Now you’re enjoying the benefits of being a bull, regularly fucking another man’s wife. 

He loves it. She loves it. You love it. Everyone’s happy.

Except now you want more. You want to take it to another level, and push yourself up the dominance ladder while pushing him down a rung or two. One way to do that is to get him to suck your cock.

Don’t worry. It doesn’t make you gay. In fact it makes you more of a Bull, because dominance is the essence of being the Bull. You’re taking charge and asserting your dominance over them both, by demonstrating your dominance over him.

Remember one simple fact: The more dominant you are over the husband, the more naturally submissive the wife will be to you. This is the key to the relationship! It naturally reinforces your dominance, and you will find that the wife will sexually respond to you even more. Women naturally gravitate toward the most dominant male. It’s a part of their intellect, even if they don’t realize it!

If you can eventually force the husband to suck your cock in front of his own wife then you’ll prove to everyone that you’re confident, capable and in charge. That’s worth gold in bedroom dollars!

But what if the cuck husband is totally straight?  Don’t worry. There is a way to still make it happen, if you’re patient. Look at it as a challenge. Enjoy pushing him. There is a rush to be had from making someone do something they wouldn’t otherwise do. I have done this several times and it can be a lot of fun.

There are certain steps you can. First, you must proceed slowly, over several encounters. Do NOT push or rush it. Follow my plan and it will work.

You will learn to use the husband’s own lust to motivate him and sex to reward him. Also, the wife should be involved if at all possible. You should try to recruit her to work together as a team while persuading the husband to suck your cock. She may even offer him sexual satisfaction as incentive, if he will do as you (and she) encourage him.

Contrary to what you may think, do NOT to use any humiliation whatsoever or the result will be resentment and reluctance. Use positive feedback and encouragement during the whole plan. The plan will work without the wife knowing, but it is easier with her participation.

First, figure out which approach would be better. If possible, try and get the wife into the idea first. If she gets into it and her husband knows it turns her on, then he will be more willing to do it. 

So you will probably need to talk to the wife privately. This can be done by phone, but I find that the wife is usually most receptive to ‘experimenting’ when I have her in bed and sexual excitement is highest. If he’s present, you should send him out of the room to talk (most cucks will leave when told to).  

When you have her alone, I prefer to get her very aroused before bringing up the subject, usually either during foreplay or after I have just entered her. That’s when most women are receptive to new ideas.

Ask her if she’s ever had any thoughts or fantasies about her husband sucking another cock. If she says yes, you’re off to a good start. If she says no, you need to ask her if she might think about it. She will of course ask “why”. 

My response here is to interject it playfully, almost like a fun game.  Try things like “Let’s see if we can get him to do it. What can it hurt? Let’s try and see what happens”.  DO NOT make it sound like you plan to force her husband to do something against his will. Many wives won’t agree to go along with that. So keep it light, fun and playful, like a fun project to do together.

If she doesn’t go along at this point, DROP it altogether. Don’t push it with her. Just move on and plan to go through with it without her help.

But assuming she does go along, then ask her if she would like to help you. If she’s aroused enough, she will probably say yes, even if the idea still shocks her. This is the best way, because your scheme will strengthen the bond between the two of you. It gives you two a common goal, and without her realizing it, you’ve created a situation where it’s now the two of you (a team) against him (the husband). She’s part of the plan.

Here’s a summary of how I do it. Remember, each step is a separate sexual encounter.

Step one: Make him to finger her pussy after you’ve cum inside her.

Step two: Make him lick her pussy while you fuck her, with you cumming

Step three: Make him eat her and then guide your cock into her pussy using his hand. Repeat this several times, changing positions, etc.

Step four: Make him 69 with her while you fuck her, then cum inside her and make him continue to eat her after you cum.

Step five: Make him use his hands and some lube to get your erect to fuck his wife.

Step six (last step): Make him eat her to get her ready, and then make him lick/suck the tip of your cock to get it ready to fuck. Repeat this several times during the night (changing positions) and he will no longer resist sucking your cock.

I will now describe each step in more detail. But one point to remember is that each step can be a separate night, or you can combine several steps into a single night. It depends on the reaction you get, and how long your encounters last.

First, make sure the husband is close to the action. If you normally fuck the wife alone, you will need to invite the husband to watch. Don’t let him sit in a chair across the room. Get him on the bed. Let him feel the mattress bounce and see the impact of your thrusts when you hammer his wife. He needs to smell the sex and feel connected with his wife.

After you finish and cum inside her, all three of you need to lie together, with her in the middle. Remember, you’re in charge. Tell him to finger his wife. A few men may be hesitant to do this, as it will involve touching your sperm. But most cucks will do this willingly. If there’s any hesitance, have the wife take his hand and place it between her legs. That’s really all you have to do the first night. Use her pussy to lure him in and get him to touch your sperm. Touching her pussy is non-threatening to him.

The second step is more up close and personal. This time he will make first contact with your dick, but in a non-threatening way. There are several positions for this, but my favorite is to have the wife in the ‘doggy’ position, with her husband underneath in the ‘69’ position. In this position he will be inches away, watching your dick penetrate his wife and sliding in and out of her pussy, sexually arousing him. It’s important that his wife suck his dick some to excite him, but not to the point of orgasm. You want to keep him aroused.

After a few minutes of fucking, the wife should begin to encourage him to lick her pussy (if she’s not in on your plan then you tell him to do it). He will be so turned on that he’ll do it. Don’t worry if he avoids your dick. The idea is to get him used to using his mouth in close proximity, and with all of the motion it will be inevitable that he will lick the underside of your shaft occasionally. Keep this up, until you get close to your orgasm.

As you approach orgasm announce it to them both. You need to tell the cuck to keep licking his wife’s pussy while you cum inside her and she needs to go back to sucking his dick while you keep fucking her. All three of you should explode together.  Afterward, he will probably pull away. That’s okay. He’s likely tasted a little of your cum, he’s probably licked the bottom of your shaft a few times and your balls have brushed his face, but all in a non-threatening way. All he did was eat his wife’s pussy, a very non-threatening act.

Third time. Have the wife lie on her back and make her husband go down on her for you, ‘preparing’ her pussy. After some time ask him if he has his wife ready for you. When he says ‘yes’, then kneel between her legs and tell him to take your cock and put it in her pussy. If he hesitates, tell him that he’ll have to do it if he wants to stay and watch. Eventually he should do it.

For the rest of the night repeat this same thing. When you withdraw or change positions, tell him to take your cock and guide it back inside his wife. Each time he touches your cock it involves her pussy, which makes it less threatening. So far he’s held your cock, licked your cock and tasted your cum, but he’s still “straight”.

Fourth time. Back to the ‘doggy’ position with ‘69’.  From underneath make him guide your cock into her pussy and eat her while you fuck her. Make sure his wife does not suck him off. He must stay fully aroused.

This time be sure to pull out numerous times while you fuck his wife and have him reinsert your cock each time. He will get used to feeling your shaft when it is slippery and covered in his wife’s pussy juices. When you get ready to cum, tell him that you’re getting ready to fill his wife’s pussy.

Then tell him to not stop licking her pussy and to also cup your balls while you shoot inside his wife (some wives get off knowing that her husband’s hand is cupping the balls that were producing the sperm being injected into her).

Shoot your load inside his wife while he’s underneath, watching and tasting it all. This time though, before you pull out, tell him to keep eating her. At this point she needs to be sucking on his cock. As you withdraw the wife needs to deliberately adjust her hips so that her pussy is planted squarely on the cucks mouth, forcing him to taste your cum mixed in with his wife’s juices.

If he is sufficiently turned on he should dive in and lick her completely clean before cumming in his wife’s mouth. If so, he’s now held your cock and your balls, licked your shaft and swallowed your cum. But he hasn’t sucked a cock. So in his mind he’s straight.

The fifth time switches back to using his hands. You and the wife lie side by side on the bed. Tell him to take a bottle of lube and get you both ready to fuck. He should kneel between her legs and lube her pussy with his hands and fingers. Then he must move over to you and uses the lube on your cock to get you lubed up to fuck. If possible, try and be flaccid when he does this. If you’re already hard he may try to slap a little lube on your shaft and call it done. That’s not what you want. If you’re flaccid he will need to work to get you hard. That takes longer, and results in more exposure to your cock, which is the goal. During this night, if you fuck more than once, have him go down on the wife and lick her pussy clean between fucks, and then use the lube on you to get you hard again before fucking.

The next time is the final step. The goal this time is to make him suck your cock. It’s very important that he view the act as preparing you to pleasure his wife, NOT as him sucking your dick. Mentally that is VERY different. There are several positions that work equally well for this but doggy works best, again with him underneath.

Tell him to start licking her pussy to get her ready. Then after a few minutes push you cock against her slit and tell him to lick your cock and get it wet too. If he refuses, the wife needs to help reinforce what you want. She can tell him that she wants to see him to do that. She can ask him to “do it for her”, etc.  She could also suck his cock to encourage him.

If he is still hesitant, tell him to lick the tip of your cock one time or he will have to leave the room. He should agree to something that simple. Then start fucking his wife, inches away from his face. After a few minutes, pull out, push your cock toward his mouth again and tell him to taste his wife (that sounds better than suck my cock).

If he resists tell him that if he doesn’t do it he’ll have to leave the room. If he’s aroused enough and gets sufficient encouragement he should open up and take your cock in his mouth.

Once that barrier has been broken, you can take it as far as you wish. I would stress that whatever you do, it’s important that you and the wife be on the same page. Read her body language to make sure she is comfortable with it (most wives get very turned on by it). If you both get off from her husband sucking your dick, then make sure she provides the right encouragement and support. After all, he loves her. If he knows it pleases her, then he will be more likely to do it. If it is a wild turn on for her, then he’ll go even further.

I have used this technique to get totally straight cuckolds to fellate me to full hardness, getting me ready to fuck their wives.

It can be done if you’re smart, patient, plan your play, and play out your plan. With the right encouragement the right cuckold will do anything to see you fuck their wife. 

A smart bull uses that to his advantage!

Sunday, April 29, 2012

So you're finally a Bull. Now what?

So, you’ve wanted to be a “Bull” and now you’ve found that perfect couple. She’s a Hotwife looking for a regular lover. He’s a cuckold (or wants to be) and he’s willing to step aside and let you and his wife become lovers.

Now what?

This is where the men get separated from the boys, pal. I have real experience with this. I’ve seen the best and the worst, of both people and experiences. I’ve also talked to others and shared many stories of real life experiences.

First of all, most single guys are totally clueless when it comes to being a real “Bull” in a cuckold-Hotwife relationship. They think being a Bull is nothing more than fucking someone’s wife. Nothing could be farther from the truth, and this is why most fail miserably.

What most guys fail to understand is that it’s a THREE-WAY RELATIONSHIP.  In fact it can be even more complex than a normal relationship because it involves THREE people, not two.

But wait, you say. I only want to fuck someone’s wife. I don’t need a relationship with her husband. WRONG! You fail. Go back to AFF and start looking for single chicks, because you don’t get it.

On the other hand if you want to learn something that could lead to a higher quality, more satisfying sex life than chasing 20-something year old, clingy, airheaded drama queens then do read on.

Being a Bull means you’re coming into an existing marital relationship. Before you even show up at the door understand that the couple has already discussed what they want long before reaching out for someone like you. Your first job is to find out exactly what they want, and then FIT INTO it.

Then you must follow a certain protocol to create a new three-way relationship. One word of advice: no matter what you expect the relationship to become later, during the first meeting or two you should be a complete gentleman. Until you get some signal from the couple you should NOT initiate anything sexual or act as anything other than a complete gentleman. Even if things should progress into the bedroom during the second (or even first) meeting, you should progress slowly and not overwhelm them.

The perfect relationship WILL NOT happen instantly. It takes an investment of time by everyone INCLUDING YOU. Like any sexual relationship, learning the needs and desires of the other person is a process. As you learn the couple, and they learn you, the relationship becomes more comfortable and the sex gets better. Eventually it will become what you/they envision, but only if everyone works together.
Now, let’s start with “what everyone wants”. There are many variations of cuckold/Hotwife play. Communication is key to getting a clear picture of the desired relationship. There are many studies and theories as to the motivations for the Hotwife-cuckold lifestyle among otherwise monogamous couples. You may want to read up on it, to become better educated about why she wants to fuck someone else and why he wants her to do so. It is both fascinating and erotic reading. The better educated you are the better your experience can be.

The most common underlying theme for most Hotwife/cuckold couples is for the Bull to become the sex partner of choice for the wife. This can range from seeing him occasionally, all the way up to daily sexual encounters. Every couple has a different idea, and it’s important to know what their expectations are.

In addition, “real life” can and does often restrict or interfere with the scheduling of play times. As a Bull, it’s important to realize that you’re dealing with a married couple with job(s), a family, social obligations, perhaps children, etc.  There will be times when play will need to be canceled or postponed because of the realities of life. You should always be sensitive to that, and never become angry about last minute changes, cancellations, etc.  Be understanding about these setbacks and you’ll be rewarded with a more appreciative and willing wife!

Once you establish everyone’s expectations about frequency, another thing to discuss is how the meetings are arranged. Some prefer regular schedules, i.e. every Saturday night for instance. Others like more flexibility, and even spontaneous meetings. Some of the hottest experiences I’ve been involved with have been spontaneous texts that resulted in late-night, last minute encounters (Horny? Can you come over? Or can I come see you?).

It’s important to know what the couple enjoys. If they’re into the wife having the freedom to reach out to the Bull when she’s horny, or if you all agree that she’s “sexually on demand” to the Bull, then you can enjoy impromptu daytime, lunchtime, or late-night quickies.

Many couples enjoy some level of sexual denial for the husband. Some enjoy limiting intercourse between themselves for several days before the wife plans to meet with the Bull. Others go so far as limiting the husband to handjobs, blowjobs, etc., during the entire time that the wife is seeing another man. This can be a fun area for the Bull to participate, perhaps demanding that the wife refrain from fucking her husband before their dates, etc. The Bull may even get enjoyment from voicing his demands to the husband in the wife’s presence (i.e., I don’t want you fucking her until I do her Friday night).

The idea of the Bull becoming the sole sexual partner of the wife can be a fun area to explore, and it’s a core theme in almost all Hotwife-cuckold relationships, with many choosing for the Bull to become her sole “intercourse” partner.

Another area to discuss upfront is your communication with the wife. Some couples prefer that the husband coordinate meetings between his wife and the Bull. Other husband’s grant their wife complete freedom, and she can call, email, text, etc. These are by far the easiest and hottest arrangements, as you can tease, flirt and engage the wife 1-on-1 with complete privacy.

Next you should discuss what the couple expects when it comes to you being alone with the wife. Some couples only play together. This can range from MFM threesomes, to the cuckold husband merely being present and watching. Other couples prefer that the husband be on the premises, but not necessarily in the same room, such as waiting in the living room or in the guest bedroom, perhaps listening in, etc.

Then again, many couples enjoy the wife going out alone on “dates” with the Bull. Realistically, most “dates” consist of the wife merely visiting the Bull at his home or a hotel for a sexual encounter. It’s not uncommon for the husband to help the wife prepare for her dates, often helping her bathe, do her hair, shave her legs and pussy, pick out sexy clothes and help her dress. Some Bulls take advantage of this by contacting the husband before the date and dictating what he wants the wife to wear for the date, and the husband will select those items for his wife.  Some Hotwife-Bulls will call the husband while having sex and let him listen in, or videotape themselves having sex so the wife can show it to the cuckold-husband later. In recent years some have turned to Skype, webcasting and other internet based products to share their acts with the husband watching in real time.

There is a certain excitement that can result from the Bull taking the wife out in public for dinner or a movie, etc. This can be a wise move by a smart Bull, as it not only starts the relationship off in a more traditional manner, but there is also some risk of the wife being seen in public with a strange man. While this may feel uncomfortable for the wife, she will also feel “naughty” and find it exciting nonetheless, which can lead to heightened sexual response later in the evening. This also shows that the wife is sufficiently attracted to the Bull that she will go outside her comfort zone and “take chances” to be with him. This is a good sign that the Bull will be able to push the wife in other areas as well, perhaps persuading her to do things that she may not do with her husband (semi-publix sex, visit a swing club, threesome with another male/bifemale, etc.).

Some couples enjoy overnight encounters. However, this is more common with couples that have already experienced some Hotwife-cuckold play in the past, and is probably not something newer couples would find appealing. However, if it is a possibility, it’s important to discuss those details too.  There are many possibilities here, including the wife spending the night at the Bull’s home, the Bull spending the night at the couple’s home, or even an overnight hotel stay. Some also enjoy the wife and Bull going together for out-of-town trips, short cruises, etc.

In those instances where the Bull stays at the couple’s home, there are variations. Will the Bull and wife sleep in the guest room, or in the master bedroom? There is often significance to the wife’s “infidelity” and the marital bed, and the Bull should be sensitive to that. Some couples limit the wife’s sexual play to places other than the marital bed, i.e. the marital bed is sacred and only for them.

Other couples derive additional pleasure from the wife “cheating” in their marital bed, and playing there can be even more exciting for them. You should discuss this ahead of time. Also, when spending the night it’s important to be clear about the expectations for the husband. Will he be present all night? Will he be present only during the sex, then go sleep in a separate bedroom? The couple often already has an idea of what they would prefer here, so you should find out.

Decide what other places/variations you all might enjoy. Some couples fantasize about the wife and Bull having sex in the backseat of a car or a semi-public spot. Some cuckold husbands enjoy the thought of coming home from work to find their wife in bed with the Bull, or knowing the Bull was at his house fucking their wife while they were at the office. Multiple partners, videotaping sexual encounters, outdoor sex, etc., can all enhance the experiences to be shared.

Bear in mind that most Hotwife-cuckold couples also focus on the Bull being “well-hung”, or at least being better hung than the husband. Ironically this is not something to be avoided around the husband, but instead should be openly discussed as a point of excitement (she NEEDS a bigger cock and he LOVES knowing she needs it). Hopefully, as the Bull, you are better endowed than the husband. However, if not, it’s still possible to build the desired relationship since much of it has to do with the Bull’s attitude and manner. If sufficiently assertive and dominant, most any Bull can still pull it off no matter what his endowment.

The age of the Bull is an area of some debate. Because most couples are seeking a Bull for the wife’s sexual pleasure, they prefer someone with a high sex drive and good stamina. Obviously this is more common in younger men. However, some women find it difficult to be sexually attracted to men significantly younger than they are. As a general rule I find that most couples prefer a Bull to be several years younger than the husband, but not so young as to have insufficient experience to sexually please a mature, married woman. Confidence, demeanor and a good attitude round it out.

Verbal play can also be critical, with both the wife and the Bull engaging in some level of interaction with the husband. Experienced Bulls enjoy telling the husband how enjoyable their wife is in bed, in a teasing, taunting manner. Common things to say might include: Your wife has a sweet pussy; She loves my big dick; She sucks cock great; I’m going to fill her with my cum; This pussy is going to be mine; Your wife is such a slut, etc.
The wife can also participate, working together with the Bull to stimulate her husband, saying things like: His cock is bigger than yours; He fucks me much better; I want him to cum in me; Do you like seeing me like this?; I’m going to fuck him more than you; He’s stretching my pussy out; etc.

Another important issue is birth control and/or condoms. These are not necessarily the same. Some couples use no birth control other than rhythm method. Other couples use birth control, but may want the Bull to use condoms due to health concerns. This needs to be discussed upfront, and everyone in agreement. Be aware that this may be one of the few areas where the wife and husband disagree. The wife may choose the more conservative approach and opt for condom use, while the husband may prefer that the Bull not use a condom and ejaculates inside his wife. 

This is one reason that the Bull should befriend the husband, as they can both work together to persuade the wife to concede and allow the Bull to engage in intercourse and ejaculate freely inside the wife. For most cuckold husband’s this is one of the most intense aspects of the act, and he will want his wife to get “creampies” from the Bull.

This can also lead to another angle, which involves the cuckold husband going down on his wife after she has had sex. Often called “clean up duty”, it is a staple of most cuckold desires. This act can be an intense experience for the husband, as it totally immerses the senses in the undeniable fact that his wife has been “slutty and unfaithful”, which is what turns him on the most. Many couples do this after the wife returns home from a “date”, but it also can occur soon or immediately after a sexual encounter at home.

If the three of you play in each other’s presence then be prepared to include this after you engage in intercourse with the wife. The act itself can have a slight humiliation aspect to it, and some cuckolds enjoy being “told” to do this by the wife and/or the Bull. It can be both a post-sexual act to bring the wife to another orgasm, as well as a means to prepare the wife for the next round of intercourse.

Also, remember that relationships evolve. For instance, at first the wife may want her husband to be present for all sexual play. Later she may become comfortable playing while her husband is in another room. That could eventually lead to her playing alone, and visiting the Bull at his home. Or perhaps the couple isn’t interested in an overnight stay at first, but in time they may become comfortable with that idea. Many ideas can become more appealing as the relationship progresses.

There is one rather extreme variation of the Hotwife-cuckold theme, which is the idea of the wife becoming pregnant by the Bull. In reality almost all couples separate this fantasy from reality. No sane couple would intentionally bring a child into the world just to fulfill a sexual fantasy. But an offshoot that is a common theme is “pregnancy risk sex”. Some couples find it more exciting if the wife has intercourse with the Bull during times when she is near ovulation. Others like to use the withdrawal method during this time of her cycle, playing with fire so to speak.

Some wives are reluctant to openly discuss this fantasy, as they find it is little too close to reality for them. After all, pregnancy COULD happen. Yet, the idea can still turn them. Nature’s urges can be strong, and they can be exploited by a smart Bull. I know wives who get extra wet at the thought that they could get pregnant from the good looking guy pumping his sperm in them. Many wives also fantasize about a man who refuses to pull out at the last minute, or being close to ovulation and so aroused that they don’t have the willpower to ask the Bull to pull out at the last second. Keep this in mind if you want to enhance your encounters with a Hotwife. It can be a powerful addition to the experience.

After discussing all of those important issues, you should have a good idea whether or not your desires and those of the couple are a good match. If they are, then what you need to do is craft a plan that has one important goal:  You must now become the Alpha Male in the relationship.

All social mammals have Alpha Males. They are the fastest, strongest and/or smartest males in the pack. Females are instinctively drawn to the Alpha Male because they have the best genetic material. Human females are no different. If two men are in her life, a woman will instinctively become more attracted to the Alpha Male.

When you come into the relationship, remember that you are altering an existing bond between two people. There is an emotional bond and a sexual bond. You don’t EVER want to do anything that interferes or hurts the emotional bond. If you do, both the husband and the wife will react negatively. In fact the strong emotional bond is required to give them the comfort to include a third person in their relationship. If you weaken the emotional bond between the husband and wife then insecurities, jealousy, etc. will emerge and ruin everything. NEVER ever make a play for the wife as anything other than a sex partner. If you do so everything will come to an end.

However, the sexual bond is entirely different. Not only CAN you break that bond, you MUST break it. Breaking their sexual bond, and then your bonding sexually with the wife, must be your goal.  When it comes to sex, you want her to think of you first (perhaps only).

When you first meet the couple, know that the wife loves her husband and looks to him for sex. If you do everything right, in time she will still love him but she will LUST FOR YOU if she begins to view you as the Alpha Male.

Becoming the Alpha Male in the wife’s eye is easy, but only if you follow a certain path.

First, you must befriend her husband. That’s right. He needs to become your buddy. This should involve some light male bonding, such as watching a few ball games, drinking some beer together, a fishing trip, whatever. In addition, the first time or two you are together with the couple you need to play the role of buddy with the husband (even if you’ve already started having sex with the wife). After all, you and he are on the same team. You want to take his wife away, sexually speaking. He wants the same thing, because more than anything he wants to see her become an insatiable slut. So make him a friend and keep him a friend. That way he will always be an ally, and there WILL come times when you’re trying to persuade the wife to try something, and having her husband as an ally can be very helpful!

By the third visit, you should begin to assert yourself a bit. Ask the husband to get your drinks and refills AND ask him to get the wife’s drink too! This is very important, as it shows that you’re looking out for her (“YOUR woman”). You can bet that the wife will notice this too, although she probably won’t say anything.

If you’ve already started having sex with the wife, take this same attitude into the bedroom. At first, suggest that the husband sit and watch you two have sex. You want to mostly ignore him. Act as if he’s not there. The wife should be your focus. But at some point act like you’re thirsty and ask him to go get drinks for you and YOUR lady. Ask him to get a towel or lube or whatever else you can think of. Make up tasks if you have to. The point is to have him do things when you ask.

During later visits this should progress to you telling him what to do in the bedroom. You should get no resistance if you progress slowly from being his buddy… to asking him to do things… to telling him what to do. It will seem like a natural progression for everyone involved, including the wife (who will be noticing everything).

Many wives get aroused watching this progression. That arousal is going to benefit you. In her eyes you will be emerging as the Alpha Male. Eventually, you should be able to tell the husband to do anything non-sexual, and he will oblige.

Next, take it to the sexual level. You want to get him involved and excited, while making it clear that you’re still in charge. Have him suck his wife’s breasts or rub her clit when you’re fucking her. Have him grab her ankles and pull her legs wider apart when you’re pumping your cock into her. Have him go down on her before you fuck her, to get her wet and ready. Have him kiss his wife deeply while you make her cum.

You can do anything you want, as long as he gets involved. At times when he’s doing something be sure tell him to stop and go sit back down. Show him that you’re in control. Another thing to do is tell him to take out his cock and masturbate while he watches. Tell him to cum while watching his wife getting laid. Again, use your imagination, as long as you’re telling him reasonable things to do. Remember, the wife will be watching too, and she will notice how much more dominant you’re becoming.

Once things have progressed to this point the wife should really be into you, and should see you as the Alpha Male. In her eyes, you should have completely replaced her husband in the bedroom. If she still seems to split her allegiance between him and you, or if you just want to take it to a deeper level, consider another step: making the husband put your cock in his mouth.

Believe it or not this has nothing to do with gay or bi-male sex. It’s strictly about domination. If you’ve ever watched wildlife footage of a wolf pack, you’ve noticed the body language of other males when they’re around the dominant Alpha Male. They maintain a low body stance, and even physically roll over showing their underbelly. They submit completely. Not only does the Alpha Male see this, all of the female wolves notice it too. That’s why the Alpha Male gets the females.

If you REALLY want the wife to be “yours” sexually, let her watch you being dominant over her husband. Most wives will tell you that there’s no way you could ever get their husband to suck your cock. If you want to have fun, bet the wife that you can make him do it. But tell her she has to help encourage him to do it. When you get him to do it you will impress her and arouse her at the same time. Plus, it’s one hell of a power trip.
Now, to be sure, we’re NOT talking about a blowjob. That’s for the wife to do. You just want the wife to see her own husband take your cock into his mouth. After this happens the first time then have fun with it. For instance, you can have the husband go down on his wife to get her wet and ready for penetration, then have him suck your cock for a minute to get you hard, and then guide the tip of your shaft into his wife’s pussy. To learn how to make this happen, click here (How to get a straight husband to suck a cock).

Once things reach this point, the wife will see you as the Alpha Male whenever you’re together. When she gets horny, she’ll think of you. She’ll fantasize about you, and do anything within her limits to please you sexually.

With married women it’s ALL about the sex. They’re not into drama and they’re not seeking commitment. She won’t be stalking you and you won’t find her crying on your front doorstep. When she calls or texts she wants to fuck. When you need sex you can call or text her and she’ll come running. Better yet, her husband will encourage it all and help with the arrangements. You’ll get more sex and better quality sex from a willing, married woman than you will with most single women out there.
That’s why it’s so worth the time investment to build and cultivate the ultimate Bull-Hotwife-cuck relationship!

Good luck.